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The Best Engineers Win Without Fighting

Prajjwal Chittori · October 2021

Sun Tzu’s most famous claim reads like a paradox until you’ve shipped a few things: the supreme excellence is to win without fighting. Subdue the enemy without battle. He rates the general who wins a hundred battles below the general who made the battles unnecessary. The loud victory, to him, is a sign you let the situation get worse than it had to.

Engineers feel this in their bones once they’ve earned the scar. The junior version of you is proud of the all-nighter, the heroic debugging session, the firefight you won at 3am. You tell the story for years. The senior version of you looks at the same night and sees a failure that started three weeks earlier, when someone made a decision that made the fire inevitable. The real win wasn’t putting the fire out. It was the boring config change another team made that quarter so their service simply never caught.

Won battles are visible. Avoided battles are invisible. This is why the best work is so badly rewarded and so rarely understood. Nobody throws a party for the outage that didn’t happen, the migration so well-staged it was boring, the integration that just worked. Sun Tzu would say that silence is the sound of supreme excellence. The general everyone praises for his daring is usually just the one who put himself in danger he could have designed away.

The principle runs past code into every contest a builder enters. Winning without fighting in a market means picking terrain where you don’t have to fight. A wedge so specific the incumbents don’t notice you. A customer so underserved you have no competitor. A problem you understand so much better that the “fight” is over before anyone shows up. Sun Tzu spends whole chapters on terrain for a reason. Most outcomes are decided by where you compete, long before any competing happens. The strong player picks ground where strength is decisive. The weak player picks a fair fight and calls it brave.

Here’s the part that keeps this honest, because “win without fighting” can be twisted into something slippery. Sun Tzu isn’t teaching you to trick people. He’s teaching you to make conflict unnecessary, which is the most cooperative thing in the book. The team that never fights over ownership has clear interfaces. The negotiation that never turns into a battle had both sides’ real interests on the table early. The competitor you “defeat without fighting” is one you simply serve a customer better than, openly, in the market. Avoiding the fight isn’t avoiding the work. It’s doing the harder, earlier, quieter work that makes the loud work moot.

So when you catch yourself proud of a heroic battle, ask the uncomfortable question. What earlier decision made this fight necessary, and who made it, including me. The answer is humbling, and it’s the whole path from good to great. Anyone can fight well. The rare skill is arranging things so the fight never happens, and making peace with the fact that nobody will ever clap for the disaster you quietly designed away.


One of a series of essays. I’m Prajjwal Chittori. prajjwalchittori.com.